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this time last week…

I was in labor.

After my OB’s prediction of labor to come, we spent Friday in a frenzied state of timing contractions, finishing up last minute packing, organizing and making last minute arrangements.

We’d bought everything Baby would need. The carseat was installed. The stroller was standing proudly in our living room, too pretty to fold down and put away. An early morning Saturday appointment that would have taken us two hours away from home and the hospital I was planning on delivering at was rescheduled.

Just in case.

Then nothing happened. My contractions stopped. I tried get my mind off the big nothing that was going on because I still had two weeks until my due date.

Sunday morning, Kaleb and Harry were out on a donut run and I was on the phone with my mom discussing all those wonderful pregnancy and child birth things that you probably don’t know about unless you have already been pregnant and had a child. Things like mucus plugs, the 5-1-1 rule, skin-to-skin, etc.

After a particularly eloquent description of my absolute lack of contractions at the moment and a certain very strange, very annoying, almost-leaking that was my mom laughed.

“I think your water broke.”

No way. I thought broken water equaled gushing. When you hear of someone’s water breaking, you think drama. Frantic, crazy, running around searching for hospital bags and car keys and making hurried phone calls to tell everyone that it was time.

Yeah, not so much. Instead I stood there giggling on the phone. Especially after having spent the last week googlingHow will I know when I am in labor?

“I’m in labor? I’m in labor! Awesome.”

Harry and Kaleb walked in the door a few minutes later with donuts and strawberry milk. While they were pulling out plates, cups and napkins I told Harry about the leaking and the conversation with my mom.

We called the doctor who told us to get to the hospital and check in at triage and then the drama started.

I’d forgotten to finish packing Kaleb’s toy bag. I hadn’t eaten breakfast. I needed to find something to wear because I sure as hell wasn’t going to show up at the hospital in my sweats. We called Harry’s sister to ask her to meet us at the hospital to do the Kaleb hand-off.

Then we were on our way. Quickly, quietly and without much fuss. I sent my mom a text as we got on the freeway.

On way to the hosp. Call you after triage…

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in a fog…

I’ve lost the will to keep track of minutes, hours, and days. You would too if you were me. Between the warm, snuggly newness of Miles and the comfortable familiarity of Kaleb, I’m so overwhelmed with love for my boys that not much else matters.

One of these days I’ll get back to doing things like cooking and cleaning and returning phone calls.

Until then… *shrugs*

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introducing…

the newest member of our family

Miles Victorino
6 pounds, 12 ounces.
19 inches
born at 7:25am on February 13, 2012

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week thirty seven


The clock on this pregnancy has just about come to and end and I couldn’t be happier. I really do enjoy being pregnant but it’s time for this baby to be born. We’ve got lots of people ready to meet him.

I was all smiles (between contractions) at our OB appointment today. Baby is locked and loaded. 3cm dilated, 90% effaced. Woot woot, party time over here! Doctor is saying she doesn’t even think it’ll be a week before we’re heading to the hospital. I’m secretly hoping that we won’t make it past the weekend.

Everything that we can do is done. The bags are packed and waiting by the door. The crib, bouncer, travel system, and everything else have been put together and are patiently waiting for their chance to be used. Time to sit back and twiddle my thumbs. Or maybe finish that baby mobile I’ve been working on all week. ;)

The beard has reached epic proportions. 85 days. And if the due date holds true, 15 days to go. I’m not sure though – I think the beard is coming off sooner than later. :)

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